Let’s plan the question. Quietly.

Keeping the surprise safe

• Don’t save my number under “photographer” — something ordinary like “Lee S” keeps things quiet.
• Set my chat or contact to silent so message notifications don’t pop up at the wrong moment.
• If you share a phone, tablet or laptop, keep an eye on synced notifications and browser history.
• Email is the safest first step — I’ll only ever reply plainly, never “about the proposal!”.